On Interviewing and BeKnown

This coming March I will have been with my company for seven years. SEVEN! That’s a long time. A lot of people think that because I work for the family business I was handed the job; that is so not the case. In fact, I still went through a formal interview process and after working for the company for a months, I came up with a new job role and proposal for my position (which has since grown leaps and bounds) which required- you guessed it- more interviewing!

Interviewing for the family business was incredibly nervewracking for me; perhaps because I felt there was more on the line and I didn’t want anyone to think I was just the “daughter of the boss.” (True story: My nickname for two years, without me knowing it was the Boss’ Daughter.) I came prepared and despite having to walk past a few of the younger account executives who didn’t know who I was and one of them asking me out on a date (you should have seen his face when he was in the interview room), everything went great! I brought enough copies of the proposal for my new role at the company, explained the need for the position, why I was a good fit, what the company could expect from me and why it would help them, and then fielded questions and answers. In some ways it felt like more of a pitch than interview however, the questions flowed after I was done with the proposal portion. How would I handle XYZ? What benefit would the company get from X? How did I plan to implement the new processes I explained?  The questions went on for about half an hour but we finally came to a close. And then a few days later, I was awarded a new job, a new title and a pay raise.

Here are some of my suggested tips for interviewing:

* Be Prepared. Rehearse what you are going to say. Review common interview questions (Google is a great help!). Ask a friend or family member to practice with you. If you are bringing a proposal with you, make sure you know it backwards and forwards; also, don’t forget to proofread for spelling and grammar mistakes.

* Turn to an expert and by expert I mean someone who is an interviwer at their job. Ask them for “insider” tips and tricks as to what to expect; they can help you with off-the-cuff questions you may get during an interview. Ask them what the top five things are that you should and shouldn’t do during an interview.

* Know the basiscs. As someone who has interviewed people for my company it is evident that some people skip some of the basics that take place outside/in the interview: Be polite to the receptionist; they are often more important than you think they are! Dress professionally: iron everything, make sure you have no runs in your panythose, and look put together. If you aren’t sure what the appropriate attire is for the interview, it’s ok to ask. Leave and arrive early: you never know when there will be traffic, an accident, or a hard to find building so give yourself plenty of time to get there. Bring your resume/proposal: It’s always a good idea to have a few fresh copies of your resume and/or your proposal. Don’t forget a pen (that works) and a notepad so that you can jot down answers to questions you may have. Do your research: learn more about the company, your position and what’s expected of you before you walk in the door when possible.

* Speak slowly. It’s common for nervousness to make us speak faster but as my mother always said, speak low and slow. This way everyone can hear what you have to say.

* Be Thankful. After the meeting, be sure to thank everyone for their time, shake their hands, leave a copy of your resume and if you are still interested in the job, let them know you look forward to hearing from them. Once you leave the office/interview, plan to send a thank you note (hand written goes a long way, but email is acceptable as well, especially if that is how the company contacted you) to thank the interviewer for their time.

If you are on the hunt for a job (or if you have one), be sure to do professional networking! Monster.com has created a new website called BeKnown that allows for Facebook users to create a separate, professional profile inside of Facebook.

What is BeKnown?
Monster.com recently launched BeKnown, a professional networking app for Facebook. BeKnown allows you to set up a professional profile directly on Facebook that is completely separate from your personal Facebook page. One of the apps newest features, College Pages, even provides a way for alumni to network professionally on Facebook and view job postings from their fellow graduates!

With BeKnown College Pages:
* Any jobs posted by alumni on BeKnown are added to the College/University profile page and Alumni with job opportunities can post jobs to students and recent alums for free
* Students can follow their school and build relationships/connections with alumni working at top companies & discover alumni  jobs

In addition to College Pages, BeKnown also lets you conduct a job search of Monster’s database of jobs without ever leaving BeKnown or Facebook. By tapping into the networks of their Facebook friends, young professionals can easily connect, send messages, and see who among their existing contacts is connected to a company or job opportunity they are interested in.  You can check out their iPhone App here as well!

“As soon-to-be college graduates start to think about their entry into the workforce, their first step should be building out their professional networks using the invaluable connections they have right in front of them,” said Tom Chevalier, Global Product Manager for Monster Worldwide. “Alumni networks are a key source for career opportunities for college graduates, so we wanted to make it as easy as possible for them to connect and engage right from BeKnown.”

 

Do you have any good/bad interview stories or tips and tricks for readers out there who may be looking for a job? Please share!

Disclosure:
I am a participant in Monster.com’s “Present The Best You” Online contest and am entering into a contest for a chance to win prizes with this blog. I was provided with a participant gift that included a makeup kit and professional business card holder.

Nora Goes to Washington

Once a year I get to travel to the Mecca of all Conferences for people in my line of work; it moves from city to city each year. (Previous cities include Denver, Houston, New Orleans and this year, Washington DC.) In addition to attending high-level meetings, networking, brainstorming sessions, keynotes, happy hours and other various parties that I’m required to attend, I try to get in a bit of sight seeing as well.

After meeting yet another fabulous group of blogging buds, I got down to the business of geeking out because, you see, I love things related to political science and history, of which there is plenty of here in DC. During my time here, I amassed some interesting knowledge based on my experiences:

* Don’t take a big purse or backpack into *any* of the museums. The guards will hound you to hold the purse/backpack in front of your body to avoid damage to the artwork, artificacts and statues.

* 33% of DC residents work for the Feds, with their average commute time a total of seven minutes.

* It’s nearly impossible to eat dinner in Georgetown for less than $30 a per person. It is, however appropriate to take photos of the food and introduce your friends to the concept of “food porn:”

{Antipasto tray at Fino’s, with a Campari & Orange Juice in the background}

{Tiramisu, also from Fino’s}

* It’s perfectly okay to spend $20 on a pair of Jackie O. style sunglasses at the National Portrait Gallery.

* If you go to a drug store (and presumably other grocery stores?) you will be charged if you use/take a plastic bag.

* It is perfectly acceptable to party on the Potomac River docks on a Sunday evening. Boats pull up dockside, blast music, movies, share drinks, tie themselves to other boats and the restaurants on the River? Jampacked. People watching is at it’s prime here and the entire area buzzes with energy which made my Sunday evening slightly less awful.

* DC is an active city; running/jogging/biking paths abound and every single time I was out and about, I saw a jogger & biker, no matter what time it was. On top of that the great sights to see are very spread out so do a bus tour or bring your walking shoes.

* For some amazing Italian food with authentic taste via Rome, make sure to check out Fino’s. The owner is onsite and will gladly speak to you in Italian if you know the language. Add to that the food is delicious, not mainstream and perfect portion size, it’s a lovely spot for a date or working dinner.

* Half the fun of taking pictures in front of monuments is doing silly (yet respectful) poses in front of them, like this:

* After seeing countless navy & white striped skirts, it’s evident I need to buy one. They look so timeless, classy, chic.

* If you’re interested in a tour of the White House, book it six months in advance. Yes, they really do fill up that quickly. I also suggest scheduling ample time for museums and other monuments/points of interest.

Truly Amazeballs*

It happens to me every time.

Nervous stomach. Sweaty palms. I pace back and forth outside the building once, maybe twice.

This isn’t my usual for a first date- it’s my usual when I meet new people, specifically bloggers. Even more specifically bloggers that I’ve known for over a year, some I’ve just “met,” though it seems like I’ve been reading them forever, and others still that you meet by chance and instantly know that you want to be best friends with them and countless other fabulous women, some who blog, some who don’t, but all who are intelligent, hilarious, open, and fun.

I was greeted by hugs, handshakes, smiles and after that it was like I was hanging out with 25 of my closest best friends.

During my 36 hours of blogger meet-up in DC, I was a back-up dancer in a Rick Rolling video (just ask LiLu, she has the proof). I wore a fake mustache because it seemed like a fun idea:

I shouted across the street as Mandy showed up out of the metro. I shared a salame pizza with Maxie and company, laughed wildly with Ashley, talked about buying purses at Hallmark, what STL and the midwest is really like, randomly shouted Twitter handles as more friends appeared at the bar. (Really, it’s the only way to identify one another. My name for the evening was Nora, WalkingWithNora.)

I talked life, love, my pursuit of happiness, snapped way too many pictures and yet not enough at the same time, took a tequila shot for the first time in ages, managed to survive Chinatown in three-inch heels. Watched a girl (not in our group) throw up while walking and guys (not in our group) take photos of said throw-up. Hailed a cab in two seconds flat, and the minute I got home? Missed everyone immensely and began the process of mentally planning the next gathering.

On Saturday, I indulged in a scrumptious breakfast at Furin’s, a family owned & operated restaurant that came with a side of cute (the owner is smoking hot), indulged in a chocolate milkshake on steroids, oogled the ridiculousness that is the Twilight table at Barnes & Noble. I bought a few more books to add to my ever-growing pile of addiction, laughed like it was my job and just basked in the friendship and outpouring of love that I felt with my friends. My. Real. Life. Friends.  

Special thanks to Lilu for organizing the DCAmazeballsHH (VOTE for her for MTV’s First Twitter DJ while you’re at it!), to all the women (and brave men!) who were there, to Becky for making a rad (yes, I just used the word rad) video of our day on Saturday, and to the blogging community for continually inspiring me, for being my friends and a constant reminder that anything really is possible.

(Don’t forget to enter my giveaway for a chance to win a $50 gift card from CSN stores! Three more days to enter!)

Tidbit Thursday: Condos, a Giveaway, DC, & More

Time for another installment of Tidbit Thursday, but first, I have another special giveaway for my readers:

* Since I’ve started looking at condos, I’ve been perusing a lot of home & decor websites, dreaming of how I’d adorn each room. One of my favorite home decor sites so far? CSN Stores: they have over 200 websites and amazing products including everything from platform beds to wall clocks, to children’s bedding, to kitchen gadgets and other housing necessities. CSN Stores was kind enough to offer one lucky reader a $50 gift card valid for use on any of their sites.  See below for the entry details. ***

* You give me (condo) fever. Browsing available condos and townhomes in the area is totally addictive. I’ve promised myself that once this finance class is done (four weeks! FOUR WEEKS!) I’d start looking on a more regular, more focused basis. I’m fortunate to have a great realtor who is a friend of the family so she’ll be helping me out while I figure exactly what I want/need/can afford going forward. There are still some big decisions to be made regarding home ownership but I think I’m honing in on the answers.

* This time tomorrow I’ll be on a plane to Washington DC. The sole purpose of the trip is for work: a very long week of conferences, meetings, key notes, networking. The secondary purpose: take my photo in front of as many monuments as possible while meeting all the fabulous DC bloggers and the other ladies who will be in town for various reasons. I am literally jumping out of my skin with excitement as I finally get to meet Mandy, LiLu, Suburban Sweetheart, Becky and Ashley TIA (and so many more that if I linked to all of them you’d be bored with this sentence). I’ve not been to DC since I was five; I can’t wait to explore the city and geek out on a daily basis. I am, after all, a dork for all things political science.

* Running! I’m officially running again, and so far, 100% pain free. I’m taking it slow and steady, ignoring my pace and mileage and just enjoying the fact that once again it’s me, my running shoes, some tunes and my thoughts. Even after almost three months, running still feels like “home.”

* Wedding (and baby) Season! It’s that time again. This year it’s different: I have more baby showers than weddings. The next few months are a whirlwind of baby showers, bachelorette parties, bridal showers, weddings and other friend-focused festivities. I have eight friends who are pregnant currently and I have to say, I’m enjoying attending the baby showers. Maybe it’s because I’ve been to over 20 bridal showers so baby showers are new to me, or perhaps it’s because I learn something new at each shower. I’m looking forward to this season of weddings too as one of them will be a mini college reunion and the other one is for one of my favorite people. (Plus between the baby showers and weddings, I’m sure to get eat some really good cake!)

Any tidbits you’d like to share today?

***There are two ways to enter the giveaway:
 *For one entry, leave a comment here with how you’d use this gift card if you win.  
* For a second entry, blog about this giveaway; come back and leave a comment with a link to your blog.

Who can enter? Anyone from the US and Canada!
Enter by Thursday, July 15th at midnight.

Letters: Russell Brand, Fish Wire, Libraries, Knees and more

Dear Russell Brand,

Thank you for being hilarious in Get Him to the Greek. After wrestling with advanced corporate finance for a day, it was just what I needed. I’ve developed a new crush on you, your accent and your eyeliner-wearing self. Please do a comedy tour and come to StL.

With adoration,
Nora

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To: Rude, Loud Neighbor
From: Nora, the eternal Hippie

It has recently come to my attention that you have strung fishing wire above your pool and deck area in an attempt to keep (trap?) ducks from coming into your pool area. We live in suburbia with trees, ponds, shrubs so it’s only natural that we will have ducks. It’s one thing to not like them; it’s an entirely different beast if you try to kill/harm them. Have you thought about the noise, pain and mess the ducks will make if they are trapped? I’m incredibly disgusted. Animals were here first, then humans. Consider that before you continue to concrete your entire backyard.

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Attention: Left Knee

It’s been about five weeks of physical therapy and overall, you’re showing great signs of improvement. I appreciate your cooperation and willingness to work hard to allow me to exercise again. However, this little bit of inflamation and setback for no good reason? It’s not ok. Exercise is my release. It’s how I get through the work weeks. Sure, I’m learning to cope in other ways but let’s commit to getting 100% better. I’d like to run a few 5ks later this summer, so let’s work towards that shall we? Keep up the good work and keep the eye on the prize.

Yours in Exercise,
Nora

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Dear St. Louis Libraries:

I’m pretty excited about the adult reading challenge you have in place this summer. Chances to win Barnes & Noble gift cards? Sign me up. I also love that you have a book club and have increased the new releases section. My only request: plesae be open on Sundays and maybe consider some outdoor seating for the lovely summer nights we have?

Always,
Book Addict

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To: Summer
From: Nora

Please don’t disappear within a blink of an eye. My weekends now through mid-July are filling up and sadly my days are spent within the walls of corporate America but I’d really like to have some lazy summer days and really enjoy you. Try to stick around as long as you can.

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Dear Jack,

Your sixth birthday is coming up in July. I can’t believe we’ve shared six years together already; you’ve been such a loving, happy, spunky, adorable dog. Thank you for loving me unconditionally and waiting for me by the door each evening. Adopting you was one of the smartest decisions I’ve ever made.

Love,

Your Dog Mamma

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Any letters you want to write today?

Holidays

Holiday weekends are for…

… going to a midnight showing of Sex and the City 2, ignoring the bad reviews because we all know sequels aren’t as good as the first, loving the fashion, the underlying tones in the movie, giggling with the girls, and indulging in a $10 cosmopolitan. Don’t forget the fact that we dressed up and shamelessly took photos while we waited in line for the movie.

… sleeping until noon as much as possible, even if your body only allows you to do it once.

… disconnecting from all things technology including blogs, gmail, work email (well, ok, I checked it once), twitter, phone calls, online classes.  

… finding new tv shows to be addicted to, even if  only for the weekend but realizing you kind of want to watch the entire season. (I’m looking at you, Drop Dead Diva.)

… treating yourself to late snacks just like you were in high school. On the menu: Doritos, an ice cold Coca-Cola, cookies.

… taking advantage of the sales at the mall to buy a few new fabulous pieces of everyday jewelry, possibly including a faux black diamond ring a la John James Preston III.

… meditating on the big life questions, maybe getting nowhere, maybe getting somewhere.  

… finishing a book that you really, really wanted to read (Kingdom Keepers III) and being ok with putting down a book that’s not grabbing you, at least for now (Swimming).

… giving yourself a pep talk: only eight more weeks of finance and you’re done with the subject forever. Only 16 weeks before you’re 100% done with school. FOREVER.

… wrapping up loose ends around the house: cleaning, filing, organizing, trashing.

… baking the classics: chocolate chip cookies and oatmeal carmelitas.

… wishing that it wasn’t necessary work everyday, 8 to 5 (and then some) because the feeling of freedom, being able to do whatever you want whenever you want is just so amazing.

… hugging your family members, catching up with neighbors and friends, penning notes to others.

… remembering those who have sacrificed their lives, families, loves and so much more for our country and freedoms.

… going on long walks with the dog and your sibling, talking about everything and nothing at the same time.

… making some mid-year resolutions with yourself regarding personal health, wealth, and overall goals.

How do you spend your holiday weekends?

The April Obsession List

Another month in 2010 has flown by and so it’s time for another installment of my monthly obsessions.

* Yard work. Yes, that’s right, I said yard work. I love mowing the lawn, seeing the neat little rows, the instant gratification of a job well done and having the satisfaction of having one of the prettiest lawns on the cul-de-sac if only for a few days before the rains causes it to grow an inch over night. I’ve also become a fan of pulling weeds, trimming trees and general sprucing up around my parents yard. Results you can see are fabulous and it’s a bit of a cardio/arm workout too.

* Sundays. You’d think that I’d love Fridays but lately, Sundays are my favorite. They mean a day without any school work (I work like a maniac all week to ensure my Sundays are free), leisurely naps, watching a movie, family dinner and 24 hours to let my brain detox from the incessant finance quizzes, problems, econ case studies and charts.

* Being Single. Yup, I said it. It rocks. I don’t have to shave my legs if I don’t want to. No one asks me where I’m going or what I’m doing. I don’t have to worry about wearing make-up or dressing up; instead I dress to make me happy and in the process I like to think I’m finding my own (new) style. I have my family all to myself on holidays and don’t have to dash off early to get to another family celebration. I’m refocusing on my goals: school, work, health, buying a house and couldn’t be a happier about it.  I’m taking time to just be me, no boys added.

* Not Reading. I know, such a change for me, right? School sadly infiltrates all areas of my life so sometimes the last thing I want to do is read a book for fun. Instead I’ve been listening to the radio (indie station, usually), popping in new CDs on my way to work, and getting my daily dose of reading through my mom who shares tidbits of things from Vogue & the New Yorker, while my dad shares our daily horoscopes and the big news with us at the dinner table.

* Planning mini-vacations. Working for a small company makes it challenging to take off a week at a time so I’m learning to plan around vacations we already get. Memorial Day weekend, assuming the knee news is good, I’ll be in Chicago for four days. In July, I’m spending an extra weekend in Washington DC before my mandatory work conference. August will be a trip up north just for fun and then hopefully a trip to see my faux-niece this Labor Day weekend.

Giveaways. I have a few ideas for a giveaway or two coming up in May, so in the meantime, go check out Lauren’s awesome giveaway to celebrate her blogaversary!

Any new current obsessions for you this month?

(all photos courtesy of weheartit; click on photo to view source)

Lessons Learned on a Rainy Weekend

… driving with the radio turned down, the rain slapping the windshield, is a rather calm way to start the work day.

… allowing yourself a tiny bite of a doughnut is completely acceptable after a week of early alarms and chaotic meetings.

… there’s still nothing quite like the accomplishment felt after a long week of work, the many to-dos crossed off the list, a sigh of relief as you exit the building.

… sometimes you have to give into your junk food cravings. Bonus if it’s all something you can make/bake at home.

… laying in bed for an extra hour on a rainy Saturday morning watching mindless ABC Family movies is blissful.

… returning to your favorite breakfast place is always a good idea.

… jumping out of the comfort zone and trying on 1940s style sundresses in bright colors will be one of the best decisions made in awhile.

… writing econ papers is better after several hours of procrastination, a dog at your feet, and a thunderstorm out the window.

… nothing beats Mexican food and a movie on a Saturday night.

… Saturday Night Live isn’t nearly as good as it used to be.

… I’m a chronic over-scheduler. My weekends need less activity, more free time.

… seeing other people run is a stab to the heart right now; the body is craving the open road and the running shoes. Thank goodness for common sense.

… there’s no place quite like bed, Boston Legal in the DVD player, schoolbooks packed away and a book by your side.

Random Side Note: Thanks to everyone for their kind words and support on last Friday’s post. I will definitely be exploring alternative racing options as well as new workouts after getting the final MRI results and discussing all possibilities with my doctor to make sure it’s a-ok.

Five Year Plan

It’s funny how much things can change.

Five years ago (well, five years ago and four months, more or less), I graduated with my B.A. in International Studies. It was one of those “special,” degree programs where I got to choose my area of study, take the classes that interested me, and learned my little heart. (Seriously, I was a dork in college. I mean, a fun dork, but still… each class had it’s own notebook and highlighter. My planner was color coded. One of my best guy friends made fun of me for years because I was so organized and color coordinated.)

I finished college in three and a half years because little Miss Ambitious Me stayed during the summers to work random jobs, enjoy the town and take classes. Some days I think it was a great decision to finish early, others I wish I had stayed the last semester.

Turning in my final exam in my rural sociology class, an eye-opening, intriguing class, my professor asked my plans post-graduation. They were to: work for Bank of America as a teller, get them to pay for my grad school, save up for a house, and take it from there. I wanted to move to D.C. to work for non-profits or as a lobbyist. (You wouldn’t know it from my blog but I love politcal science, history, and making a difference.)

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None of that ever happened. I didn’t want to work at a bank, so when my dad said that his new business needed an administrative assistant, I took the job. Salary, benefits and my dad as my boss? Sign me up. Within six months I created my own position, pitched it to my dad and his business partner and landed myself the role of Event Coordinator. Two years later, Event Manager. Now I manage to many different things to even put it on a business card (Event, Marketing, Contract Management, Client Relations, Teacher sometimes, and the girl who makes the coffee seems a bit excessive).

When I graduated I was dating a loyal, quiet, country boy. We had grand plans to get engaged and get married but hit a speed bump when he decided he didn’t want to move away from his small town and I wasn’t going to give up what little city life I had.

When I graduated I was going to live at home and save, save, save. After six months of working for my dad, I thought it best if I moved out on my own. So I did, for the past four years, anyway. I apartment hopped mostly because my roommates changed due to marriages, babies and fiances. I’m back at home again and so thrilled for the opportunity to save up money for my very own place. I’ve started perusing the houses and townhomes for sale, all with a yard of course so that Jack can play fetch. (And maybe I’ll get a second dog because Lord knows I’ve wanted one for awhile now!)

If you had asked me five years ago what I’d be doing today, I wouldn’t have said that I’d be a blogger, living in St. Louis, finishing my masters, a book fiend, single,  working for the family business with the likely intent to take it over or training for a 10 mile race. I also wouldn’t have guessed that I would be happy with everything I just described, but I am. It feels like home, like me, like what I’m supposed to be doing. Even if there are days where I have my doubts, I know I’m on the right path.

I’ve also decided that my next five year plan is to have no plan. It just seems better that way.

Are you a believer in the five-year plan?

House Party, Number Munchers & My Inner Hippie

I want to blog. No, really, I do! About…

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… me giggling and giggling when I told my dad a story about my college days involving me, a house party, my date who had a tongue ring, the cops, hiding in a bathroom and discovering that everyone, including our ride, quickly fled the scene.

… how I won’t ever be able to look at a breakfast burrito the same way again courtesy of the Motley Crue antics explained in “The Dirt.” (Fortunately I never really liked breakfast burritos.)

…  almost getting up early this morning to go run four miles before work, at the ungodly hour of 5:30 am but then decided sleep and puppy cuddles were more important. I also realized that would be a boring blog post.

… the fact that I’m actually quite terrified of my classes, which start tomorrow, because, well, the last time numbers and I got along we were in elementary school playing “Number Munchers,” on the computer. (I’m taking finance & management econ. I think econ and I will get along alright.)

… how much I’d love to go running from my office building directly to a beach or a pool. The 72 degree weather we are experiencing is literally making me antsy for the real thing.

…. the fact that I got my best night of sleep in a long time last night simply because it was raining. Best. Sleeping. Weather. Ever.

…. my ongoing fascination and surprises I have as a result of being in this community. The emails and comments I received on my last post about the “something missing” made me realize that I’m not alone and for that I thank you. I also thank you for the encouragement on school & my running.

… craving a new look and style for myself. Maybe it should start with my hair. Or maybe I should finally start dressing like my inner hippie. Or inner Connecticut preppy self. If only I had the amazing fashionistas I idolize closer to help me!

… baby fever. I have it.

but alas, life has other plans for me. I’m in corporate mayhem, pleasing customers, taking deep breaths and sadly ignoring my corner of the interwebs.

If you had more time today, what would you blog about?