Comments on: How not to break up with a girl http://www.walkingwithnora.com/2008/04/13/how-not-to-break-up-with-a-girl/ …through sun, through rain, through life Tue, 07 Feb 2012 04:04:44 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Ellen http://www.walkingwithnora.com/2008/04/13/how-not-to-break-up-with-a-girl/#comment-98 Ellen Mon, 14 Apr 2008 15:12:52 +0000 http://laylou.wordpress.com/?p=107#comment-98 My friend Nova, sent this to me and I was told the same thing, the next day he had a date with another girl. Really it isn't you at all, it is him, he is not ready for a woman who is confident. He is scared of a real genuine relationship and it is really his loss. I can't tell you my expereience was 3 months and he wanted to move in but didn't because of the "spark". Screw the spark, is a guys easy way out to say they are a jerk and isn't ready for a real relationship. My friend Nova, sent this to me and I was told the same thing, the next day he had a date with another girl. Really it isn’t you at all, it is him, he is not ready for a woman who is confident. He is scared of a real genuine relationship and it is really his loss. I can’t tell you my expereience was 3 months and he wanted to move in but didn’t because of the “spark”. Screw the spark, is a guys easy way out to say they are a jerk and isn’t ready for a real relationship.

]]> By: Nova-san http://www.walkingwithnora.com/2008/04/13/how-not-to-break-up-with-a-girl/#comment-100 Nova-san Sun, 13 Apr 2008 20:24:43 +0000 http://laylou.wordpress.com/?p=107#comment-100 It definitely is a WTF moment. I think this "spark" that these guys want is something akin to the initial "high" that people get on drugs. They initially feel this "spark" when they first start dating a girl, and as is customary with any relationship, the "spark" fizzles out a little, but they're constantly looking for the big "spark" that was there in the beginning. I don't know... all I can do is speculate. I guess we'll never really know wth goes on in these guys' heads. I'm guessing nothing - since they're all acting like morons and letting go of wonderful women along the way. On another note: you looked beautiful (che bella!) in your friend's wedding photos. HB is a dumbass. It definitely is a WTF moment. I think this “spark” that these guys want is something akin to the initial “high” that people get on drugs. They initially feel this “spark” when they first start dating a girl, and as is customary with any relationship, the “spark” fizzles out a little, but they’re constantly looking for the big “spark” that was there in the beginning.

I don’t know… all I can do is speculate. I guess we’ll never really know wth goes on in these guys’ heads. I’m guessing nothing – since they’re all acting like morons and letting go of wonderful women along the way.

On another note: you looked beautiful (che bella!) in your friend’s wedding photos. HB is a dumbass.

]]> By: laylou http://www.walkingwithnora.com/2008/04/13/how-not-to-break-up-with-a-girl/#comment-99 laylou Sun, 13 Apr 2008 20:15:43 +0000 http://laylou.wordpress.com/?p=107#comment-99 I am thinking that if there is this "spark," out there that all men claim to not have, it must be something pretty freakin' amazing when you find it. I have had sparks in many dating experiences, so the BIG SPARK must be quite fantastic. Nova, I agree... HB is dense. Perhaps it's naive of me, but I'm going with the theory that he convinced himself there is no spark due to his new job and etc. Or there's another woman. Whatever. It's a WTF moment at its best. I am thinking that if there is this “spark,” out there that all men claim to not have, it must be something pretty freakin’ amazing when you find it. I have had sparks in many dating experiences, so the BIG SPARK must be quite fantastic. Nova, I agree… HB is dense. Perhaps it’s naive of me, but I’m going with the theory that he convinced himself there is no spark due to his new job and etc. Or there’s another woman. Whatever. It’s a WTF moment at its best.

]]> By: Nova-san http://www.walkingwithnora.com/2008/04/13/how-not-to-break-up-with-a-girl/#comment-101 Nova-san Sun, 13 Apr 2008 20:00:04 +0000 http://laylou.wordpress.com/?p=107#comment-101 I.just.don't.get.it. WTF is wrong with guys these days? And what is this "spark" that all of them claim is not there? And does it take them weeks to figure this out? (As with my friend's guy who claimed after 3 months of virtually living with each other that there was no "spark.") I read through your previously entries, and from what you wrote, there definitely was spark there. I think he is just dense. I.just.don’t.get.it.

WTF is wrong with guys these days? And what is this “spark” that all of them claim is not there? And does it take them weeks to figure this out? (As with my friend’s guy who claimed after 3 months of virtually living with each other that there was no “spark.”)

I read through your previously entries, and from what you wrote, there definitely was spark there. I think he is just dense.

]]> By: oh http://www.walkingwithnora.com/2008/04/13/how-not-to-break-up-with-a-girl/#comment-102 oh Sun, 13 Apr 2008 15:17:28 +0000 http://laylou.wordpress.com/?p=107#comment-102 Did I say "keeper" in reference to HB several blogs ago? Um, well, now I'm saying "idiot." That's a polite word essentially because I have no Sicilian in me but I have plenty of WASP sang froid. He's dimwitted. Did I say “keeper” in reference to HB several blogs ago? Um, well, now I’m saying “idiot.” That’s a polite word essentially because I have no Sicilian in me but I have plenty of WASP sang froid. He’s dimwitted.

]]> By: uberfrau http://www.walkingwithnora.com/2008/04/13/how-not-to-break-up-with-a-girl/#comment-103 uberfrau Sun, 13 Apr 2008 07:38:08 +0000 http://laylou.wordpress.com/?p=107#comment-103 that guy is an ass. Is he a sociopath? that guy is an ass. Is he a sociopath?

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